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By William Smith

As we get older, I believe that one must experience new things. You may have tried being a top or a bottom when you were younger and failed at it. But today is a new day. You might be the best top or bottom in the world and you just don’t know it.

Are you a top or a bottom or are you verse?

I am sure you have heard that before!

One of the great things about being gay is that your sexual positions can change in life . Sometimes I may feel like being a bottom  in the morning. I may feel like a top in the evening .

What is  your preferential sex position? I know you have one. Have you always been a top or always been a bottom?

Let’s talk man to man here…have you ever tried to become more versatile?

I say switch it up and bring some new experiences, feel some new sensations.

If you are in a committed relationship, and you are always in the same roles, sex maybe come boring… Dull.

Don’t get trapped and fall into roles.

If you are single, one of the greatest things about being versatile is that you are potentially sexually compatible with anyone.

We are gay men damn it ..we can always switch it up unlike our straight counterparts.

As a versatile man, I don’t have to deal with any of that straight crap. It wasn’t always like this, however, when I first came out of the closet I was absolutely petrified  that someone would say who is the man? Who is the woman?,  especially when relatives would talk.

Psychologically it weighed on me. I wanted to be the man. To be penetrated meant to take away everything I thought I was supposed to be which is crazy because  that is what hetro society forced me to believe.  As I got older I realized this was anything but true.

When you are versatile anything is possible.  Sex becomes much more exploratory and kinkier. We will have much more freedom. which makes it less boring and actually more loving  .

Can it be scary? You bet it can . I know that I am terrified at times at being a bottom.  I am just getting used to it. The more I do it, the more orgasmic it has become.  Being vulnerable is ok, it is kinda sexy as well to your partner.  Tell your partner, that you haven’t been a top or bottom much, I am sure that he will assist you in any way he can. I find that you must prepare with toys , dildos , for example, so you get used to the size. Also, try different lubricants. It makes a world of difference. It is very enjoyable to know that you are so sexual in different ways.

In short, don’t t get stuck in roles. Your a gay man which is awesome and very orgasmic in many ways..no holes barred!